A Visit To Bern’s Steak House — Still The Tampa Bay Area’s Most Famous Restaurant!

Photos by Gary Nager & Joel Provenzano 

Bern’s Steak House. For anyone who has lived in the Tampa Bay area for any period of time, the name is almost mythical. For many of those who have seen the changes it ultimately had to go through since the late Bern Laxer (he passed away in 2002) and his wife Gert (who followed her husband in 2020) first opened Bern’s in 1956 (including now owned and is being run by Bern and Gert’’s son David), Bern’s is still the go-to steak house — despite the presence of chains like Fleming’s, Eddie V’s, Charley’s, Capital Grille and Ocean Prime — as much for the experience as for the food itself. 

While the restaurant does accommodate a varying small number of walk-ins for the dinner and lounge areas, and seating at the bar is “first come, first served,” reservations are highly encouraged for dinner tables in the various main dining rooms, and that reservation is still among the hardest to book in Tampa. They often have to be made up to 60 days in advance to ensure a table on the night you want. 

So, after correspondent Joel Provenzano and his wife Jessica told me that their most recent Bern’s experience didn’t live up to the steak house’s legendary reputation — and realizing that I had never taken Jannah there in the ten years we’ve been together — I decided to take us all out to S. Howard Ave. to give this venerable institution another try. 

For decades, Bern’s Steak House has stood as a landmark in Tampa’s culinary scene, attracting local elite and the who’s-who of American food royalty, e.g., chefs like Emeril Lagasse, plus sports and entertainment celebrities and even actual visiting royalty. 

Since opening nearly 60 years ago, it has become a go-to destination for special occasions, high-end dining and one of the most extensive wine lists in the entire world, plus a separate dessert room nearly as famous as the restaurant itself. In other words, it would be virtually impossible to replicate what the Laxer family has created and nurtured for generations of Tampa Bay residents and visitors. 

The restaurant was born from very humble beginnings, created by Bern and Gert, with one dining room in a small strip shopping center (which today is the steak house’s Bordeaux dining room), Bern’s eventually grew to eight dining rooms, a massive wine cellar that first-time visitors just have to tour, and the fabled second-story Harry Waugh dessert room (built in 1985 and named for the renowned English wine merchant who provided the redwood wine casks for the dessert room’s 48 private suites) — taking over the whole adjacent strip of businesses and becoming the world-famous steak house it is today. 

Pulling into Bern’s under its classic porte-cochùre, guests are greeted by an efficient valet service — an elegant first touch. Walking in the door, you’re transported into a different era, and a feeling of vintage elegance envelops you, set by the dim lighting and bold colors, textures and lush artwork. It’s immediately clear this is going to be more than just a dinner — it’s meant to be a unique experience. 

Once seated in the RhĂŽne dining room, I ordered a 2004 Silverado Sangiovese — a Napa Valley version of one of my favorite Italian varietals (the grape behind Italian Chianti Classico), which I found by checking out Bern’s 200-page wine list online before we all visited. Our affable waiter Nick opened the bottle next to a lit candle, which not only provided illumination that allows sommeliers to see if there is sediment in the wine and stop pouring before it can enter the decanter — which none of us actually knew was a thing. It also adds to Bern’s romantic ambience. 

On their previous visit, Joel and Jessica shared the unique “Tuna and Wagyu” starter (left), a high-end fusion of Wagyu steak tartare wrapped in sashimi-grade tuna, topped with Osetra caviar. Joel says the four large pieces were visually stunning and delicious, absolute perfection even — a strong recommendation for those who like raw Japanese-style food. (Note- When they asked for chopsticks, they were told Bern’s hadn’t stocked them in years). 

But, speaking of you caviar fans (Jannah and I aren’t among those), Bern’s offers nearly two dozen varieties, plus a selection of high-end cheeses (from French camembert to Italian Fiore Sardo made from sheep’s milk). 

For this visit, we started with an incredible lump crab cake (right), which was mostly crab, grilled to crisp-edge perfection, with charred corn, tomato, basil and mustard seed vinaigrette. 

Other appetizers on Bern’s extensive menu include a dry-aged special chateaubriand carpaccio, seared foie gras, dry-aged beef rib empanadas, shrimp cocktail, oysters on the half shell, coal grilled octopus, escargots, black truffle steak tartare and baked clams, which we did order (left). They were good, but small and I didn’t think the addition of sheep’s milk cheese to the stuffing was a great (or necessary) addition. There also are two giant shellfish “Plateaux de Fruits de Mer,” with everything from shrimp, lobster and oysters to king crab, octopus and more. Not for me, but still. 

And, although every entrĂ©e at Bern’s is served with salad and a tasty, cheesy French onion soup and every steak entrĂ©e also is served with crispy onion rings and the vegetable of the evening, Joel decided to substitute Bern’s She Crab soup, which featured a large portion of lump crab, with sweet peppers, corn and fino sherry. Nick poured the creamy soup over the other ingredients (right) and of course, I had to at least sample it and found it to be a unique blend of flavors. 

And of course, the must-order when you visit Bern’s, despite the fact the restaurant has 30 different steak options, is the signature chateaubriand (top photo), which is a tender, large, cylindrical cut of tenderloin roasted to a crisp crust outside while staying incredibly tender inside. We ordered one 14-oz. and one 9-oz. cut of chateaubriand for the four of us to share and no one left hungry or disappointed. 

Among the other steak cuts are three sizes of filet mignon, two delmonicos, three sizes of dry-aged strip steaks, two porterhouses, two T-bones and five different varieties of A5 Japanese wagyu, including a wagyu tasting with 4 oz. each of tenderloin, strip and sirloin cap. There also are “large-format” steaks like the 36-oz. wagyu tomahawk, 40-oz. bone-in tenderloin and a 60- oz. porterhouse. Maybe next time. 

Other entrĂ©es include the famous Chicken Gert (with roasted garlic rosemary butter), cast iron-roasted grouper, roasted quail, dry-aged rack of lamb, coal-grilled cobia, roasted salmon, halibut and sansho pepper-glazed sea bass. But, if you’re a steak lover and want the full Bern’s experience on your first visit, go with the chateaubriand — it’s the steak that made Bern famous and it was still wonderful. 

In addition to the side dishes served with all of the steak and most of the other entrĂ©es, there also are a la carte, shareable vegetables and sides, including parmesan truffle fries, thrice-baked potato, an Okinawan sweet potato purĂ©e, steak house mushrooms, roasted asparagus, white truffle mac & cheese and the tasty creamed corn we ordered for the table (and more). 

If you’re making your first visit to Bern’s, you simply have to take the tour of both the kitchen and the amazing wine cellar. While many restaurants will allow you to visit the kitchen, very few invite every guest to see for themselves the size, scope and quality control that goes into creating your meal (left), but the crew at Bern’s wants you to know the pains taken to ensure you enjoy a great meal and dining experience. 

The absolutely legendary wine cellar, that Bern himself originally curated, houses about 110,000 bottles of red, white, rosĂ©, sparkling and dessert wines on the premises at any time, which according to our tour guide, is only about 15% of the restaurant’s total wine inventory. If you can’t find a bottle you want on the restaurant’s world-famous list, ask your sommelier to recommend something similar…or better…or completely different — they will always have you covered. 

The rest of the huge number of bottles are stored in an off-site facility and the list is constantly being updated. Some of the rarest and most expensive bottles of wine in the world are housed here. 

The right photo on this page shows just a portion of the hundreds of wines available by the glass, if you don’t want to commit to a full bottle. It’s intentionally really dark in the wine cellar, so it’s tough to get great pictures of anything other than this area, but believe me, the tour is still very much worth taking. 

The Harry Waugh Dessert Room is so famous that you don’t even have to have dinner at Bern’s in order to make a reservation for just the dessert room. Redwood doors and walls separate each dessert room, so you and your guests can enjoy privacy as you indulge in the largest selection of premium cocktails and dessert wines of any restaurant I’ve ever been to— and yes, I’ve been to a few. 

The desserts themselves are so decadent that no matter how full you may be from dinner you kind of sort of still have to indulge. Joel, Jessica, Jannah and I each got our own dessert and there was a lot of sampling going on. 

Jannah’s Dutch apple pie, with Granny Smith apples, brown sugar crumble and caramel ice cream, was great, as was my single scoop of roasted banana ice cream with hot fudge. 

But, Joel and Jessica made even better choices — Jessica’s creme brulĂ©e, topped with fresh mixed berries (left) was spot-on and Joel loved his macadamia nut sundae in a house-made waffle bowl (below). 

We all enjoyed a well-deserved after-dinner cocktail and left Bern’s satisfied and thinking about making another visit to try some other wine, steaks, fish and desserts there. 

In other words, Bern’s is still Bern’s. Is it still the best restaurant in Tampa? Try to make a reservation and decide for yourself, but it is still a great experience that everyone should have at least once. 

Bern’s Steak House (1208 S. Howard Ave.) is open every day except Monday for dinner at 5 p.m. To reserve a table, visit BernsSteakHouse.com or call (813) 251-2421 for more information. 

Presenting: The ‘Neighborhood Newsmakers’ Podcast!

My B.S. degree in Broadcast News from the University of Florida never did much for me in terms of jobs in the broadcast field. 

Oh, I had my own radio and TV advertising agency before I purchased this publication, and I had my own “The Leisure Man” radio show on two stations in Westchester County, NY, right before I moved to Florida. I even attempted to sell a “Ring Magazine TV Show” with myself and my former editor at Ring Randy Gordon as co-hosts to NBC-TV in the mid-1980s. My ultimate goal after college was always to provide programming for radio and TV, but when those opportunities didn’t come for me, I did the next best thing I could to support my family — I bought the Neighborhood News — and the rest, as they say, is history. 

But, that itch to do something in the realm of broadcasting never waned for me. Back in 2018, we were one of only 23 U.S. and 86 worldwide news media outlets to receive an investment of capital from Google to expand our online news and we did just that — churning out two videos per week for most of 2019. But, when Google didn’t renew that grant, I never reached my goal at that time of having an ongoing news “channel” on Google-owned YouTube. 

So since then, my itch to provide broadcast programming, in addition to what we do every two weeks in print and provide every day online, has continued to go mostly unscratched. 

Until now, that is. When North Tampa Bay Chamber president Hope Kennedy invited me to be the first-ever guest on her new “Chamber Chatter” podcast (as we reported a few months ago), I got so broadcast-itchy that I felt like I needed “an ocean of Calamine lotion.” I asked Hope if the amazing Emorys Rock Realty podcast studio at the NTBC’s new office in The Shops at Wiregrass was available for others to produce their own podcasts and when she said it was, the idea for my new “Neighborhood Newsmakers” podcast was born. 

My intent with the podcast is to supplement what we do in these pages and online with longer-form interview opportunities with the people making news in and around New Tampa and Wesley Chapel. I hope to feature elected officials, governmental staffers, developers and anyone else making news in our community. And yes, we may also include some dining segments on the podcast. So, you can expect more than just one-on-one interviews on many episodes. And, you can see all of the released episodes on our “Neighborhood News” Facebook page. 

Episode 1 featured Live Oak Preserve residents Jason and his son Karson Centeno, who were two of the nine locals I selected from around 50 applicants to judge our “Neighborhood News Chicken Tenders Contest,” where PDQ won for Favorite Mild and Chick-fil-A won for Favorite Spicy Tenders. 

Jason, Karson and I had a few laughs about the format of the tenders contest and about what future tasting contests the Neighborhood News could sponsor — from tacos to pizza, Cuban sandwiches and more. The episode has had over 1,200 views. I’ll keep you posted about future podcast episodes. 

The second episode we recorded is with Michael Pultorak (left photo), the local RealtorÂź and organizer of the Pasco Connected City Residents Group on Facebook and who has become a strong voice on behalf of those residents at Pasco government meetings.

But, I held off on releasing Episode 2 until after Episode 3, because it was an interview with New Tampa residents Kathy and Jamie Miller, the mom and sister of the late former USF football player Joel Miller, the young man assaulted by coach Jim Leavitt who passed away after becoming known for getting Leavitt fired. 

Leavitt is somehow still scheduled to be inducted into the USF Athletic Hall of Fame on Oct. 2, so I released Episode 3 out of order (top photo), in an effort to get USF to change its decision about inducting the fired former coach. I hope you’ll watch the episode, too, and sign Kathy and Jamie’s petition on Change.org. 

Ivybrook Academy & Mindful Elevation Cut North Tampa Bay Chamber Ribbons!

Congratulations go out to Jade and Duran Thompson (with scissors in photo above), the owners of the new Ivybrook Academy in the Tampa Palms Professional Center at 5392 Primrose Lake Cir., who hosted a North Tampa Bay Chamber (NTBC) ribbon-cutting event on Sept. 10. 

Neither Jade, who is a Doctor of Pharmacy, nor Duran, an Army veteran who has a Master’s degree in Finance, had any experience in education when they started their journey “about two years ago,” Jade said at the ribbon-cutting event, “with our son Jaden After looking at every preschool from Wesley Chapel to Lutz for him, we finally found one we liked, but there was a rift between the ownership and the local administration and the entire administration left overnight. I remember I said to Duran, ‘I think I can do this better.’” 

So, Jade went back to school to earn her teaching credentials and they started looking to buy an existing school that was already profitable. “But, we just couldn’t find the right school to renovate or location, until this school, which was owned by another family, but got taken over by the Ivybrook franchise, which was looking for local ownership and listed it for sale — nine months before it had ever opened. 

“So, even after our bad experience with that other franchised school, this was so similar to what I had in my business plan I said, ‘Let’s do it!,’ even though it was just dirt at the time.” 

Jade also liked that Ivybrook combines two popular curricula — Montessori and Reggio Emilia. “We have Montessori, which stresses individualized, independent learning groups, for our reading and math curricula, and Reggio Emilia, which promotes collaborative, project-based learning, for a more creative aspect.

Not a lot of pre-schools combine them.” 

There are about 50 Ivybrook Academies currently open in six states. Tampa Palms is number five in Florida, with the closest other Ivybrook being in Sarasota. “but there are about 150 more in development,” Jade said. 

She added, “It’s been really heartwarming to open the doors for the first time two weeks ago and actually see families that had agreed to trust me with their child when I didn’t even have a building for their child to attend. It’s been really exciting.” 

For more info about Ivybrook Academy, visit IvybrookAcademy.com/tampa-palms or call (813) 603-1609. 

We also congratulate business coach Jacqueline Nelms (at far right in left photo) of Mindful Elevation, which is located in the former location of this publication, at 2604 Cypress Ridge Blvd., Suite 102D. Jacqueline, who hosted her NTBC ribbon-cutting event on Sept. 11, has had a 25-year professional career in the health care field, but has been an executive for the past 12 years, “where I’ve led large teams, built operational strategies, and focused on organizational growth and resilience. She has a Doctorate in Health Sciences with a concentration in Leadership & Organizational Behavior, as well as a Master’s degree in Strategic Leadership. She also is a certified professional life coach and mental health first aider. 

“This combination informs my coaching of academic research, practical leadership experience and a deep commitment to helping individuals and organizations grow in purposeful, ethical and sustainable ways,” she said. 

During her ribbon-cutting event, Jacqueline thanked her husband Ross, “who has been absolutely amazing and supported me through every crazy idea I’ve had over the years,” as well as her kids, Dominick and Nicholas, and all of the Chamber members on hand to support her. 

For more info about how Jacqueline and Mindful Elevation can help you, call (813) 943-4560 or visit MindfulElevate.com. — GN 

Upcoming Events — ‘Up All Night’ Jazz, ‘Oklahoma!,’ Fall Festival & More! 

Monday, October 6, 10 a.m. – BayCare Annual Pet Blessings. At BayCare Hospital Wesley Chapel (4501 Bruce B Downs Blvd.). Bring your pets to BayCare and hospital Chaplain Reid Isenhart will say a blessing over them at this annual event. For more info, call (813) 914-1971. 

Tuesday, October 7, 9 a.m.-10:30 a.m. – North Tampa Bay Chamber Business Breakfast. At Pasco-Hernando State College, Porter Campus (2727 Mansfield Blvd., Conference Center – Third Floor). This month’s guest speaker is Lisa Richardson, ED.D., the VP of Advancement, Innovation & Strategic Partnerships for Pasco-Hernando State College. $25 for members, $30 for non-members to attend. For more info or to register, call (813) 994-8534, visit Business.NorthTampaBayChamber.com.events.

Wednesday-Thursday, October 8-9, 8 p.m.-10 p.m. – Solo Spotlight Series: The Light Bringer. At New Tampa Performing Arts Center (8550 Hunters Village Rd.). This is the first Solo Spotlight Series of the season: The Light Bringer, an Arab immigrant’s story of family, freedom, and finding the American Dream. In this one-woman storytelling show, Laila Lee brings to light her experiences growing up Muslim in the American South, how she discovers her place in the world, and what sacrifices she has had to make. Tickets $15-$20, depending upon seat selection. For info, call (813) 829-2760. Or, to purchase tickets, visit NewTampaArtsCenter.org/events/solo-spotlight-series-the-light-bringer. 

Saturday, October 11, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. – 10th Annual Candy Crawl, presented by Fun 4 Tampa Kids/Tampa Bay Moms Group. At The Shops At Wiregrass (28211 Paseo Dr.). Local businesses and organizations will give guests a very unscary day of fun, with booths featuring crafts, games, candy and treats. There will be a Not-So-Spooky Haunted Obstacle Course, a Monster Bouncer and more. Kids get a free trick or treat bag (while supplies last) so arrive early. Costumes are optional but there will be costume contests. Free to attend but please register for special giveaways. For more info and to register, visit candycrawl25.eventbrite.com. 

Renowned tenor saxophonist Jeremy Carter and his Quintet will try to keep you “Up All Night” at his Tampa Jazz Club show at the New Tampa performing Arts Center on Saturday, October 11. (Photo from Jeremy Carter’s Instagram page) 

Saturday, October 11, 8 p.m. – The Tampa Jazz Club Presents “Up All Night,” Featuring Tenox Saxophonist Jeremy Carter. At the New Tampa Performing Arts Center (8550 Hunters Village Rd.) Electrifying tenor saxophonist Jeremy Carter (left), backed by trumpeter James Suggs & the Jeremy Carter Quintet, will provide an exciting evening of music designed to keep you “Up All Night.” Table seats cost $35 ($30 for Tampa Jazz Club members) or theatre seats for $30 ($25 for members). For tickets & more info, visit TampaJazzClub.com. 

Wednesday, October 15, 9 a.m.-10:30 a.m. – North Tampa Bay Chamber Coffee Social. At BayCare Hospital (4502 Bruce B. Downs Blvd., 1st floor classroom). Wake up and join your fellow Chamber members for your morning brew and networking. Free to attend. For more info or to register, call (813) 994-8534 or visit Business.NorthTampaBayChamber.com.events. 

Wednesday, October 15, 1 p.m.-3 p.m. – Fall Fest Senior Expo. At Amberlin Apartments Clubhouse (28149 Sparrows Edge Cir.). Meet local businesses that help seniors in our area. There will be raffles and giveaways. Free to attend. For more info, call (813) 553-3138 or email AmberlinWiregrass@SparrowLiving.com. 

Friday, October 17, 7 p.m.-9 p.m. – Caribbean Chillers Concert. At The Shops at Wiregrass (Piazza Ave). Kick back, relax, and let the island vibes take over as the Caribbean Chillers, the ultimate Jimmy Buffett tribute band, hit the stage! From flip-flops to beachy beats, you’ll be dancing, singing, and soaking in paradise under the stars. Please no outside alcohol or coolers. Lawn chairs and blankets are recommended. Free to attend. For more info, visit TheShopsAtWiregrass.com/event/31388-the-caribbean-chillers-live-concert. 

Friday-Sunday, October 17-19 & October 24-26 – The New Tampa Players Present: “Oklahoma!” At New Tampa Performing Arts Center (8550 Hunters Village Rd.). Tickets $22 – $40 depending on seat selection. For more info and to purchase tickets, visit NewTampaPlayers.thundertix.com/events. 

Saturday, October 18, 8 a.m.-12 p.m. – Fall Community Yard Sale. At Downtown Avalon Park Wesley Chapel (4424 Friendly Way). Plan to attend for a morning of treasure hunting throughout the neighborhood. Free to attend. For more info, email Info@AvalonParkWesleyChapel.com or call (813) 783-1515. 

Saturday, October 18, 5 p.m.-9 p.m. – Avalon Park Spooktackular. At Downtown Avalon Park (4424 Friendly Way). There will be trick-or-treating, food trucks, community performances, bounce houses, vendors and a costume contest. Fun for the whole family. Free to attend. For more info, email Info@ AvalonParkWesleyChapel.com or call (813) 783-1515. 

Monday, October 20, 8 p.m.-10 p.m. – Broadway Open Mic Night. At New Tampa Performing Arts Center (8550 Hunters Village Rd.). Broadway Open Mic Nights are for everyone — whether you’re a seasoned performer, practicing for an audition, or just love to sing. Live piano accompaniment (bring your own sheet music). Cash bar. Free to attend. For info, call (813) 829-2760 or visit NewTampaArtsCenter.org/events/open-mic-oct. 

Saturday & Sunday, October 25 & 26, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. – 2nd Annual Wesley Chapel Craft Festival. At The Shops at Wiregrass (along Paseo Dr.). Discover unique handmade treasures as you stroll through the Shops at Wiregrass and explore a wide variety of jewelry, pottery, art, photography, plants, specialty foods, and more — all crafted by talented artisans. Free to attend. For more info, visit TheShopsAtWiregrass.com/event/30968-2nd-annual-wesley-chapel-craft-festival. 

Saturday & Sunday, October 25 & 26, 11 a.m.-6 p.m. – North Tampa Bay Chamber’s Wesley Chapel Fall Festival & Carnival. At The Grove (5854 Wesley Grove Blvd.). The 21st annual Fall Festival returns to The Grove. There will be a full carnival, food trucks, kids play zone & activities, pumpkin photo stops, “Trunk or Treat” on Sunday, costume contests, local bands, community performances and more. For more info, call (727) 674-1464, email Drew@FloridaPenguinProductions.com or visit northtampabaychamber.com/2025-fall-festival. 

Wednesday, October 29, 8 p.m.-10 p.m. – Steinway Signature Series: Nikolov-West Duo: Under Four Hands. At New Tampa Performing Arts Center (8550 Hunters Village Rd.). This special concert by the Nikolov-West Duo, featuring Viktor Nikolov and Jane West, brings a fresh perspective on the piano duo experience. This dynamic piano four-hands program will weave together beloved traditional masterpieces with bold, rarely heard gems. Whether or not you’re already a classical piano lover, this is one performance you should not miss. Tickets $17.50-$25 depending upon seat selection. For info, call (813) 829-2760 or to purchase tickets visit NewTampaArtsCenter.org/events/under-four-hands. 

Friday, October 31, 4 p.m.-6 p.m. – North Tampa Bay Chamber’s “Final Friday.” At the Marriott Residence Inn at Wiregrass Ranch (2867 Lajuana Blvd, at the Wiregrass Ranch Sports Campus). Join Chamber members as they engage and network in a relaxed environment. Free to attend. For more info, call (813) 994-8534 or visit Business.NorthTampaBayChamber.com.events. 

Friday, October 31, 5 p.m.-11 p.m. – Halloween Party on the Rooftop. At Skybox Rooftop Bar at the Marriott Residence Inn at Wiregrass Ranch (2867 Lajuana Blvd, at the Wiregrass Ranch Sports Campus). There will be live music, games, costume contests and more. Register for the Grand Prize, a free 2-night hotel stay. Free to attend. For more info, call (813) 591-2915. 

Saturday, November 1, 10 a.m.-10 p.m. – 36th Annual India Festival. At Florida State Fair Grounds (4800 US 301, Tampa). Come out to experience dances that dazzle, food that delights and shopping that excites. For more information visit IndiaFestivalTampaBay.com. 

‘Homes For Our Troops’ Gives Two Wounded Vets The Keys To Their New Homes!

(Left Photo, l.-r.) Marine Sgt. Chris Lawrence raises the American flag at his new Homes for our Troops Home. Michelle, Cristiana, DeliaMarie, Chris and his sister Tameka check out their new kitchen. (Right Photo) Quincy, Skye & Warren pose for a picture in their new kitchen. 

Congratulations go out to former Marine Sgt. Christopher Lawrence and former Army Sgt. Quincy Lopez, who have now received the keys to their respective Homes for our Troops (HFOT)-provided homes, located in different parts of Wesley Chapel. 

Both severely injured veterans lost their respective right legs to improvised explosive device (IED) blasts while serving in Iraq and both chose Wesley Chapel for their new HFOT homes, both custom-designed by Kent Custom Homes. 

(l.-r.) Chris Gordon, Warren, Quincy & Skye Lopez, HFOT’s Bill Ivey & Chris & Michelle Lawrence.

They both also were honored at a dual ceremony that began at Sgt. Lawrence and his family’s new home on Steeplechase Rd. and continued at Sgt. Lopez and his son Warren’s new home on Country Club Rd. Both injured vets took down the HFOT flag they raised during their respective “Volunteer Day” events a few weeks earlier and raised American flags at the end of their respective Key Ceremonies. And, both expressed tremendous gratitude to HFOT, Kent Custom Homes, all of the volunteers who helped lay the sod and plant the plants at their new homes and, of course, to their families. 

Among the speakers preceding Sgt. Lawrence’s Key Ceremony were community engagement coordinator Jocelyn Phipps and executive director Bill Ivey of HFOT, which (as we’ve previously reported) is a 501(c)(3) military nonprofit that puts roughly 90 cents of every dollar it raises into building specially-designed homes for severely wounded soldiers who served after 9/11 — and that number is now up to 419 homes and still going. But, in addition to Sgt. Lawrence himself, the speaker who made sure no one in attendance had a dry eye was Sgt. Lawrence’s sister, Tameka. 

“It was no surprise when, right out of high school in 2005, Chris proudly joined the U.S. Marine Corps,” Tameka said. “He would always call me to say ‘I am safe’ and update me on where he was going. Then, on August 17, 2007, came the call that no family wants to hear — that Chris was being airlifted back home with life-threatening injuries. But, in his true spirit, he ended up coming back stronger and more determined than ever. Today, as we step into this beautiful new home, we are stepping into a space that represents healing, hope, honor and independence. This is a place where he will live with his family, where laughter will echo through the halls, where his family and friends will gather memories for years to come. On behalf of the Lawrence family, thank you from the bottom of my heart, to Homes for our Troops, for recognizing Sgt. Christopher Lawrence, his sacrifice, his service and his future. You have not only built walls and a roof, you have built a legacy of respect. Thank you all. I love you.” 

Not to be outdone, Chris said, “This day — September 6 — is a day of celebration, but it’s also [the anniversary of] one of the saddest days of my life. It was the day that I lost my crew, my team, so I have to acknowledge that. I’m a stubborn guy. After I got injured, they said, ‘You probably won’t be able to walk and you absolutely won’t be able to run.’ Now I run every chance I get and walk anywhere I can.” 

He added, “I was trying to find a purpose and decided to try to become a police officer. I put myself through the Police Academy, got turned down by a lot of departments until I was given an opportunity by a phenomenal academy and police department in Chula Vista, CA. I served there eight years before I realized that police work was probably not the right choice for someone with no toes. I also realized that stairs were not my friend and a friend of mine, a fellow Corpsman who also had a prosthesis, got a home from Homes for our Troops and I saw that he could get around and be a part of his family all the time. And that really motivated me to apply. And now, I know that this house is meant for me and my family to be in forever. So, thanks to Homes for our Troops and to all of you for being here today.” 

Sgt. Lawrence then got to raise the American flag at his new home (above right photo). 

(Above, l.-r.) Sgt. Quincy & Warren Lopez receive the keys to their new home from HFOT president & CEO, retired Gen. Tom Landwermeyer. 

Although both Sgt. Lawrence and Sgt. Lopez were honored at the first ceremony at Sgt. Lawrence’s house, the dual “Key Ceremony” event continued a short time later that same day at Sgt. Lopez’s new HFOT home on Country Club Rd., which also was custom-designed by Kent Custom Homes. 

At Sgt. Lopez’s ceremony, HFOT community engagement coordinator Krystina Goroshko first introduced Sgt. Lopez’s friend — and fellow HFOT home recipient — former Army Staff Sgt. Chris Gordon, who received his home in Groveland in Lake County, FL, in 2018. 

“I thought the house I got was pretty magnificent,” Staff Sgt. Gordon said, “but I’ll admit that I’m a little bit jealous of Quincy’s house. Not only does it have a lot of new features that mine doesn’t, this Wesley Chapel community is amazing!” 

Staff Sgt. Gordon also talked about a lot of the battles wounded soldiers with prosthetic limbs go through, including getting infections at their amputation sites, “but at least, when we receive these homes from Homes for our Troops, we don’t have to battle to take a shower or fix food in the kitchen anymore.” 

He added, “But, Quincy and Chris are now part of the [HFOT} family. I’m really excited to hear about all of the great things you go through in your new home, Quincy.” 

Next up was HFOT president and CEO and retired Army Brigadier General Tom Landwermeyer, who first echoed what Bill Ivey said at the first ceremony: 

Sgt. & Skye both love the new wide entrance way to the shower in his new home. 

“You all could be doing anything you want to do today, but you chose to be here with us, celebrating two veterans of the family. So, thanks for coming. But now, I’m going to say a few words about Quincy. He was 20 years old and living in New York when 9/11 happened. He decided at that time, as so many others did, even though he was already serving the public as a police officer, to change uniforms and join the military.” 

He added, “I always tell people that the one thing these homes can’t fix is their injuries. Yes, they make it easier for them to live, but they will have those injuries for the rest of their lives. Quincy is a single parent, one of the hardest jobs in the world, but he’s doing it. He’s a well-educated young man and a teacher and mentor to other veterans. So, Wesley Chapel, you have one of the most dedicated vets we have.” 

Sgt. Lopez said that one of the great things about his new home is that, “I’ve suffered a lot of injuries since my service in the bathroom and kitchen. I would have to use my wheelchair to get to the toilet and my walker to get where the toilet was and grab bars to get out of the toilet. But, this home is going to allow me to be a better veteran, a better father and serve my community better. Homes for our Troops isn’t just rebuilding families, you’re giving families back their brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, uncles and aunts. You’re rebuilding whole communities. I can’t thank you all enough.” 

He also thanked HFOT, “which gives 90 cents of every dollar to build these homes. That means the staff is so dedicated to this cause that they’re willing to sacrifice pay and time just to give back and serve us. I can’t thank all of them enough either.” 

Sgt. Lopez also said that he learned very quickly that “Wesley Chapel is awesome. It’s a great community for my son to grow up in and We’re so excited to come here to live.” 

To make a donation or for more info about Homes for our Troops, visit HFOTUSA.org. — GN, all photos by Charmaine GeorgeÂ