The memory board of Dave displayed during the celebration of Life
Join Us When The Former Proprietor Also Will Be Celebrated At Stonewood Grill On Monday, July 28, 1 P.M.-???Â
Even though I had met David (âDaveâ) Rathbun when he managed the Carrabbaâs Italian Grill on N. 56th St. in Temple Terrace, I didnât really get to know him until 2002, when he opened the first Stonewood Grill & Tavern in the Tampa Bay area.
There werenât a lot of great restaurants in our area at that time â heck, there werenât a lot of restaurants, period â but Stonewood became New Tampaâs favorite restaurant pretty much from the day it opened and thereâs no doubt that Dave had as much to do with it as the restaurantâs steaks and seafood.
The way Dave seemed to remember everyoneâs name after one or, at the most, two times meeting them, the way he made sure his instant slew of regulars always got their favorite table or seat at the bar â literally everything about the guy was warm, funny and genuine. He was the very definition of the word âhospitableâ in the hospitality industry.
(L.-r.) Emily Barreira, Gina & Dave Rathbun (Photo provided by Emily Barreira)Â
I didnât know that Daveâs wife Gina was suffering from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS, better known to many as âLou Gehrigâs Diseaseâ) for the first several years she was stricken with it, and it wasnât because Dave didnât talk about Gina. It was because he constantly talked about how wonderful she was, what a great mom she was to her daughter (and Daveâs beloved stepdaughter) Emily and what a talented artist Gina was. The first time I found out Gina was ill was when Dave asked if I could publish an article about her in the paper to show some of her art, which I did and I wish I couldâve found the issue with that story before I went to press with this issue.
Now, mind you, Dave Rathbun never asked me to write anything about Stonewood. He literally had never asked me for anything until that day. And, for the first time ever, I saw pain behind his ever-present, infectious smile.
When Dave left Stonewood, a lot of people were heartbroken. There were some who told me that they couldnât keep going to their favorite place if Dave wasnât there anymore.
The next time I heard from Dave was in 2023, when he had accepted a position as a manager at Bella Brava New World Trattoria in The Hub at Bexley (off S.R. 54 in Lutz) , which opened a few months later. He introduced me to general manager Tina Stormer and made sure the Neighborhood News was on-hand for Bella Bravaâs âFriends & Familyâ pre-opening and introduced us to co-owner Thomas Sanborn, who was the original chef at Stonewood when Dave opened it.
Dave seemed to thrive in his new position at Bella Brava, but in April, he was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that affects the kidneys. Suddenly, after years as Ginaâs primary caregiver, Dave was receiving dialysis treatments three days a week for several weeks.
In June, Dave decided to work a full shift at Bella Brava, even though Emily â who is a nurse with two degrees â was concerned that her stepdad wasnât fully recovered from his weeks of dialysis treatment. He just loved the work.Â
But, when Dave got home, he told the caregiver that he wasnât feeling well. He went to sleep…and never woke up.
At only age 69, the man who loved his wife for 28 years and had taken care of her for the last 17 years as she struggled with ALS, was gone.
Tiny quickly organized a Celebration of Life in Daveâs honor and memory on July 14 and an estimated crowd of 300-400 people showed up to hear his family and closest friends talk about what a wonderful husband, father, brother, friend and manager of people he was. Here are a few excerpts from the speeches given about Dave that day:
Daveâs stepdaughter Emily Barreira & her mom & Daveâs wife Gina Rathbun (Photos by Charmaine George)Â
Gina (Emily read a letter from her Mom to her husband Dave): âFrom the moment David came into our lives, he became a second father figure to Emily, loving her as if she were his own. He was endlessly dedicated and loyal not just to me, but to our whole family. He showed his love through his strength and unwavering support by always putting us first. David, you carried your confidence and kindness with you. Wherever you went, your compassion touched countless lives, and your love will always remain alive in the hearts of everyone who had the privilege to know you. But, you left me so fast and unexpectedly. I love you more than you will ever know, and I will miss your radiant smile everyday. Your love is the lasting legacy you left with me and your family. Your kindness was a true gift to everyone who had the chance to know you.â
Emily: âDavid always had a favorite story that he love to share. When I was four years old, I was sitting out in the living room with him watching TV. My mom came over and reminded me that it was time to go to bed. I looked up at her and said, âNo, mommy, I canât go to bed. Iâm watching baseball with my âlittle stepdaddy.â From that day on, thatâs what he was to me… my little step daddy. He instantly became my bonus dad at a very young age and supported me throughout the rest of my life.â
Daveâs brother Paul Rathbun
Paul (Daveâs brother): âWhen I was 16 years old, and we lived in Boston. David, John myself and Daveâs friend Tim took us to see the Trammps, a disco band in the seventies, and they were pretty hot at the time. There were a lot of problems with that evening, not the least of which was that four of us were under age. The five of us were invited on stage to sing the finale, âDisco Infernoâ with the group. It was amazing. Okay, it was the seventies. Dave loved his family, He loved the restaurant. He loved the people he worked with. He loved his customers. He just loved people.
âDave loved reading his devotionals. A recent one he shared was, âHeâs Preparing a Place for You.â Jesus promised that heâs preparing a place for us, a place where we will be with him forever. Itâs not the size of the room or how fancy it is. Itâs about being in his presence, where thereâs joy, peace and love that never ends. Dave, you have fought the good fight. You finished the race. You have kept the faith. Well done, my brother.â
Dave’s brother John Rathbun
John (Daveâs brother): âHe and I talked about the power of positive thinking â in the things you do, the things you say, the things you think â it all determines your destiny and the energy you give off to people. Dave greatly valued his family, connecting with his creator, and mentoring his coworkers. He loved his customers and obviously, his friends, and many of his customers became his friends.
âThe French have a phrase ââJoie de vivre,â which means âthe joy of life.â I think Dave possessed that. He put a lot of effort into his relationships with his coworkers and his customers. and he brought a lot of joy to you guys and, to be honest, you brought a lot of joy to him, too.â
Dave’s close family friend Tim
Tim (Daveâs long-time friend): âDave had gone to school for physical education but when he moved here, he was going to nursing school and he was working in an Italian restaurant (Lorenzoâs). And I would come down from Tennessee to visit and you could just tell that he loved it. I soon realized that he all the things that he could do as a P.E. teacher, he could do in the restaurant business.
âHe mentored so many people and was a great coach. He was so inspirational to so many people. Iâll never forget that we were working on a paint crew here in Florida. I was going to school, and Iâm borrowing money to go to school and I didnât know what I wanted to do. And I was really beating myself up and I had one conversation with Dave and he said to me, âTimmy, donât worry about it. Donât put so much pressure on yourself. Youâre smart, youâre a hard worker and people like you. Just focus on doing the best that you can every day and treat people around you the way you want to be treated, and youâll be successful.â
Daveâs friend Kelly Barnett
Kelly (another long-time friend): âI worked at the Olive Garden in New Tampa, right across the parking lot from Stonewood. Dave and I had worked together like 30 years before that, and we end up working right next to each other. So, one day I was eating there and Iâm just watching him.
âI knew what he was like, but I never got old to watch him work a dining room. He knows everybody by name. And he knows something about each of them. Itâs not like heâs just out there saying, âHey, howâs your dinner?â And the person I was with was also in the restaurant business. And they said, âOh my God, heâs like the Mayor of Stonewood!â
Bella Brava Bexley GM Tina Stormer (with Emily & her husband Ryan Barreira)
Tina (Bella Brava GM): We closed the restaurant today so all of our employees could be here to celebrate Dave. He was the definition of hospitality at its best. They called him âDiamond Daveâ for a reason. If he didnât know who you were when you walked in, he would definitely know you by the time you left.â
Please join us for a second Celebration of âDimond Daveâ Rathbunâs life on Monday, July 28, 1 p.m., at Stonewood Grill & Tavern.
(l-r) Daveâs brother Mark Rathbun, his sister Martha Peddle (with Paul) & his sister Mary DeSantis
Grand Hampton residents Diane Royer and her father and former WWII Buffalo Soldier Roy CaldwoodÂ
Editorâs note â One week after I interviewed Cory Lake Isles resident and retired U.S. Army Brigadier General Remo Butler â the first-ever Black General of the U.S. Special Forces â on the same day Gen. Butler attended the celebration of the 250th birthday of the U.S. Army in downtown Tampa on June 14 , I interviewed former U.S. Army vet, âBuffalo Soldierâ and Grand Hampton resident Roy Caldwood, who took a very different path to becoming the true American hero he is today.
Gen. Butler and Army PFC (private first class) Roy Caldwood were both honored during that June 14 celebration and the two have become friends over the past couple of years, thanks in no small part to an introduction of the two by District 7 Tampa City Councilman Luis Viera.
Although I was hoping to tell Royâs story in the same edition as Gen. Butlerâs, I wasnât able to schedule both interviews before I had to go to press with that June 24 issue, so the first half of Royâs own amazing story appears in this issue instead. â GN
The first time I met World War II veteran and Grand Hampton resident Roy Caldwood, his 101st birthday was being celebrated at Grace Episcopal Church in Tampa Palms (the church Roy and his daughter Diane Royer attend) in Aug. 2023.
After that encounter, I told Roy I was excited to buy his book entitled Making The Right Moves: Rikers Island & NYC Corrections; Being Calm in the Storm about his harrowing experience as an assistant deputy warden who was held hostage during a riot at the notorious Rikers Island prison in his native New York City in 1972 (more than two decades after he completed his military service).
I also said that the next time I interviewed Roy, I wanted to talk about not only the two Rikers Island riots he survived but also his experiences as a âBuffalo Soldierâ during WWII. In fact, today Roy may be the last surviving member of that 92nd Infantry Division, which was the only Black regiment that saw combat during the war.
I say âmay beâ because, according to the AI response I received during a Google search, the last surviving Buffalo Soldier was a man named Robert Dixon, who passed away in Nov. 2024 at the age of 103 â the same age Roy Caldwood is today. (So, for those of you who believe everything AI tells you, try doing some research on your own sometimes.)
But, Roy is not only still very much alive, he is a vibrant man who can still do âprobably 40â pushups (although he says 20-30 is his usual limit) and who loves recounting his stories of the Second World War and his century-plus-long lifetime of amazing stories. If you ever get the chance to meet him, ask him to tell you one story and you will end up being regaled by many tales of bravery, heroism and true evidence of why the members of the American military who fought in â and ultimately won âWWII have been dubbed âThe Greatest Generation.â
From Humble Beginnings
Roy J. Caldwood was born in New York City on July 10, 1922. Although his parents never divorced, he says they were separated because his mother, a devout Christian, could not deal with his fatherâs gambling.
âMy father didnât live very far from us,â Roy says. âHe worked as an elevator operator and when I became a teenager and wanted to take a young lady on a date, I would visit my father at work and heâd give me a dollar. But I was raised without a father and the discipline that many of my buddies had growing up.â
In fact, Roy says, when he was picked on by bullies at school â which happened a lot because he was small and slight â he had to run home to get his âsisterâ (actually a cousin that Royâs mother raised) to help him fight his battles. âIf I went home and got my sister,â he laughs, âthose boys would be scared.â
Eventually, a much larger classmate at the Parochial school he attended, âeven though we werenât Catholic,â took pity on him, âand taught me how to box. After a couple of lessons, I didnât need my sister to fight my battles for me anymore.â
He admits that the nuns at the Catholic school were the only ones who ever really disciplined him. âIf our teacher left the room and came back, sheâd ask, âWho was talking while I was out?â and some of the kids would rat on each other,â which could cause them to get whacked on the knuckles by a ruler. âThat was enough to keep me from getting out of line too often.â
He also recalls an incident where, âI guess I did something bad. I donât remember exactly what I did, but one thing Iâll never forget was that the nuns called for a bigger guy, an older student, and he picked me up and stuffed me in the dumbwaiter. Iâll never forget that. But, it was actually good for me. I learned how to control myself.â
On To The Army
After high school, Roy says he went to his draft board and mentioned that he was interested in medicine. âThey put me in the Army, with 16 other Black guys, and said they were going to put us in a medical outpost or something, but they sent us to Camp Patrick Henry in Virginia and we formed a basketball team. And we were good. But then, I heard about this guy they called âSweetwaterâ Clifton, and I said, âWe gotta this guy,â so we drafted him and we played against colleges in the south…and beat the hell out of them.â (Note-Nat âSweetwaterâ Clifton went on to become one of the first Black players in the then-fledgling NBA after serving in WWII from 1942-45.)
When they werenât shooting hoops, Roy says that all he and his basketball buddies did at Patrick Henry was kill mosquitoes, âand we all hated it. But then, I read an article in Stars & Stripes magazine that the 92nd Infantry Division was badly in need of more help, so I got two of my buddies to go with me and we were sent off to Fort Huachuca in (southeast) Arizona,â which was the base of operations for the Buffalo Soldiers of the 10th Regiment from 1913-33 and was home to 25,000 soldiers during WWII.
âSo, they put me and my two buddies in the medical unit and we had to pass a test to become Army medical/surgical technicians, and we all passed, no problem.âÂ
But then, Roy says he got diarrhea and ended up in the hospital. He says the Army was âbreaking down Black combat outfits and making them into labor battalions. They had already done that with the only Black division that they had before â the 93rd â and they sent them to the Pacific. They were going to do the same thing with the 92nd, but the Black leaders fought them. So, they came to a compromise. They said, âWeâll allow one infantry unit to go to Italy and go into combat and see how they do. In the meantime, Iâm in the hospital trying to get out, and they wouldnât let me out, so I just left.â
Roy says he went to the Day Room and spoke to the clerk there, who said, âWell, you have to pass the âFit to Fightâ test, so you can qualify if the 92nd Infantry Division does go overseas.â
But, even though he had just left the hospital, âIâm dragging, you know, but I still passed. The only problem was that they made my two buddies corporals, but not me. They made me a private.â
Off To War
So the 370 Regiment (which participated in the Allied assault on the Gothic Line, including the capture of Lucca, Italy, as part of the 92nd Infantry Division) did just fine in battle.
âBut, you read nothing about us in the American papers, while the European papers were full of news about the âBuffalos.â But they said, âO.K., the rest of the 92nd division can go over.â
In 1944, as the European campaign was winding down (Note – In Sept. 1943, Italy was no longer allied with Germany, after fascist dictator Benito Mussolini was ousted), Roy says he and the rest of the 92nd went in zigzag on a boat, âbecause the Germans were right there and, as we were approaching Italy, the boat tried to stop at one island, but they asked , âDo you have Blacks on board?â They said, âYes,â so they said, âWell, then you canât stop here.ââ
But then, the boat pulled up into Naples, where there were a lot of black longshoremen, âand oh, were they happy to see us,â Roy says. âThey said, we are having a horrible time here because of the âUgly Americans.â The Italian longshoremen called White Americans âUglyâ because they looked down their noses at every other country. So, they were happy as hell to see us and they said, âWeâve been following you guys, so you wonât be having any problems anymore.ââ
After spending that one night in Naples, the 92nd proceeded on to Viareggio.
âI think it was maybe the first morning, and I hear us firing our mortars,â Roy says. âI go outside and I see the lieutenant and the squad, and theyâre practicing their mortars. They say, âIf the Germans come, they can come two ways â over the mountain, and we have a platoon up there, and weâre protecting down below.ââ
Roy says he said to himself, âThey should be warning the people where these mortars are falling. And then, I hear the sergeant say, âI think we hit one of their mules.â I wanted to do something to warn the people in the village, but I canât tell the lieutenant what to do. Iâm just a medic. But, I can go warn these people myself. So, I said to the sergeant, âI am going over there to tell the people that weâre practicing our mortars and itâs a dangerous area, so they should take precautions â go in their houses and safeguard their animals.â
âThe sergeant said to me, âYou can go over there, but I am not going to stop firing the mortars.â So, I said to him. âIâm going over there. You can keep on firing those mortars over there. But, if you donât kill me, do not be here when I come back.ââ
He adds, âThen, the lieutenant says to me, âYou donât talk to my sergeant like that.â I said, âOK, fine.â But, I still went over there to warn them and came back and nobody said anything.â
But then, over the next couple of days, one of the soldiers came to Roy and said he had a rash on his back. âI looked at it and said, âIâm sending you back to the rear. You need treatment. I canât help you here [on the front lines].
âBut, the lieutenant said, âPrivate, I donât have enough soldiers up here now. You canât send anybody back to the rear.â
âBut, I didnât pay him any attention,â Roy says. âI sent [the soldier] back to the rear anyway. I knew when he was supposed to be going out on patrol. And, when that day came, I picked up a rifle and took off my gear and I took his place. The lieutenant was surprised.
âBut, that started it. From then on, any suggestion I made to the lieutenant, heâd say, âO.K.â And yes, I made all kinds of suggestions.â
For example, Roy got the lieutenant to agree to allow the soldiers to have a dance â âEven the lieutenant danced the night away â because I said I thought it would be a good idea for morale, and it was. That was the first of many âO.K.sâ I got from him.â
The âPurple Heart Stretchâ
As the American troops were moving through Viareggio, they were notified about a dangerous stretch of road known as the âPurple Heart Stretch.â
âWhen we got into this village,â Roy says, âthe lieutenant called for a meeting of the townspeople and told them, âYou will not be allowed to leave this village for any reason whatsoever. Nobody leaves this village.â And this guy, heâs like the mayor of the village, or whatever, says to the lieutenant, âWe have not been able to buy food. I donât know why. And we are all really getting hungry. We need food very badly.â
âBut then, the lieutenant says, âI told you, nobody leaves!â But, Iâm always trying to solve problems and Iâm thinking, âI gotta help these people,â but what can I say? The captain already gave the lieutenant his orders â âNobody leaves the village.â So, what can I say?â
So, Roy says to the lieutenant,âWhat if I escorted them myself, since I speak Italiano. And again, the lieutenant says, âO.K.â So now, heâs defying his captainâs orders, and heâs gonna listen to a private â me â instead!
âI said, âO.K., but Iâll have to take two volunteers with me. And right away, guys are saying, âIâll go.â I say âWe leave in the morning.â But, next morning. No stores. I know, great. That takes care of that. But, I hear a lot of noise â we were upstairs and thereâs a lot of noise downstairs. And I say, âThe women are there. My guys are there. I gotta be there. I cut downstairs and I said, letâs go. Weâll let the women lead the way. I didnât want it to look like Iâm walking behind these womenâs skirts, so I let them walk way ahead. We werenât walking very long when I looked where we were and I damn near fainted. I said, âWeâre on the Purple Heart Stretch!â
âThe Germans can look down from the mountain and see us. They can kill us right now. I gotta make a decision what the hell to do. Iâm not gonna try to run out of there. I have to convince the Germans that weâre humanitarians â that weâre trying to help people who are starving. I gotta convince them. Thatâs my only hope. Iâm gonna walk with my head straight up, like I donât give a damn. Like I donât care if I die. I said, âLetâs goâ to my two guys. Itâs a good little walk but we get to the store. The women went in. And, when I went in, I saw the store was in complete blackness. I canât see anything. I said, âThereâs no getting any food in here. Thereâs nothing.â So now, I walked the Purple Heart Stretch for no food, nothing.â
He adds, âNow we gotta go back. So we started off. We got maybe a little more than halfway there and a mortar drops. Boom! So now, Iâm lying in the mud there âcause they had rain. And I said, âIt looks like I made a big mistake, but Iâm not gonna be able to apologize to these people because Iâm gonna be dead.ââ
But, Roy says he realized, âGermans donât generally miss with their mortars â theyâre very accurate. So, Iâm lying there, waiting for the next one to finish me off, but nothing. So I raise my head up, I look around and I see a partial stone or cement wall and I said to my guys, âWeâre gonna get behind that cement wallâ and I hollered to the group of women up ahead, âTo the wall! To the wall!â And they all get up and they start running and my guys are running. So then, I get up and I run. And, when I get behind the wall, the women had their prayer books and their Rosary beads out and theyâre all just crying.
âJust as I made it to the wall, the Germans increased the mortars. They mustâve thrown 30 or 40 of them, and theyâre going âBoom, Boom, Boom!â It looked like the more the women prayed, the worse it got. I said to myself, âMaybe I should tell them that it isnât helping. Stop praying.â But of course, I said nothing to them.
âSo then, Iâm lying on the ground there, and the mortars are still dropping. And I said to myself, âWait a minute. These mortars are not even falling close enough to kill us. Theyâre not trying to kill us. Theyâre talking to us! Theyâre telling me something.â
âSo, I start trying to interpret the mortars. I figured out that the Germans are telling me that they figured out that Iâm a humanitarian. Iâm actually deciphering what this all means. Itâs like they said, âWe had decided earlier that we will fight to the death.â But then they said, âNow, weâre not going to kill you.â So, I said to everyone there, âTheyâre not gonna kill us. I am going to move outside very quickly. If I got it right, Iâm alive. If I got it wrong, Iâm dead.â
âSo I moved outside, and I stood there. And suddenly, no mortars. Thatâs the Godâs honest truth. So I said, âLetâs go back.â And my guys and the women came out, and we all headed back.â
Then, when Roy and his group went back, he says, âThe lieutenant was standing outside up there waiting for me. When I met him, he told me, âThe Germans sent a detachment to the village. They wanted to find out what the hell you were doing there â and our outpost saw them.â
âThe men called the lieutenant and told him, âWe see Germans coming into the village.â The lieutenant called his captain who told him, âI want you to establish new quarters in the town.â And, the lieutenant, said, âI canât leave now because the doctorâs not here yet.â So, the captain said to the lieutenant, âDonât bother those Germans. Leave them completely alone.â âCause he knew if they did, me and my group were dead. The captain says, âWhen he gets back, then you reestablish.â
âSo now, Iâm back with the lieutenant and weâre hurrying to get to the new quarters down below. So, we get down below and we moved right in because we believed that the Germans were coming to peacefully surrender to us. So, we had to hurry.â
The Surrender Of The Germans
âSo now, were back in the house, and we walk in the front room and one of our soldiers yells out to us, âThe Germans are peacefully surrendering to us!â So, he and I are running now to help with whatever. I see the lieutenant and the German soldiers lined up in twos, with no Americans standing guard over them. We donât even have enough guys. Theyâre busy upstairs processing the other guys…the other Germans… that are still coming. Itâs just one big, long line. And I can see what the Germans are saying.
âThey said, âWe have to thank that man for what he is doing. Heâs a humanitarian. He has saved our lives. We were going to fight to the death. But now, we are not fighting to the death anymore. We owe our lives to that man now, because we are going home and we are going to do humanitarian work, just like heâs doing.â
âIt was like 40 or 50 German soldiers and we only had twelve. All we had was just one platoon. There may have been others behind us, but we didnât know for sure. And, I donât really know how many guys the Germans had, but they believed they were gonna die. They said, âWe have him to thank. He has saved our lives.â
âSo now, theyâre all lined up and what I want to see now is the guy in charge who didnât kill me. The one responsible for me still being alive. I just wanna see him. And, as I walk down the line looking, I hear some talking and Iâm listening and there are two guys speaking English. And, you know what theyâre saying? âThere he is!â A couple of times. I could look at them, I could even go over and shake hands with them. But, I said to everybody, âRight now, things are going a hundred percent. The Germans are cooperating. Thereâs nothing I could do now to make this situation any better. I could mess it up by saying or doing something wrong, but Iâm not gonna do it.â We didnât even have enough guys to stand there and watch them. The lieutenant is saying, âI donât have enough men,â which was true. The captain knew he didnât have enough men. So, the lieutenant called for an Italian civilian, a guy who helped us with our supply mules. âWe need Joe,â the lieutenant said. âI want Joe to escort these prisoners.â
âThe Germans had plenty of men and ammunition. More American and allied forces for sure would have died if the Germans had decided to fight to the death. But, one or two days after that, the Army issued an announcement saying that, âThe Italian campaign is over.â
On Celebrating The Armyâs 250th
U.S. Army Brigadier Gen. (ret.) Remo Butler (left) & Roy Caldwood at the U.S. Army 250th Birthday Celebration Ball. (Photo: PamElla Lee Photography)Â
On June 15, Roy posted on his Facebook page, âSo grateful for being honored and invited to the 250th Army Anniversary Ball by Gen. Butler. An awesome evening of giving a toast, cutting the official Army cake and sitting in the Army war jeep behind the steering wheel.â
He adds, âI had no idea how I would be received and my friend, General Butler, also said he had no idea. He said, âRoy, youâve got so many people here!â
âIt was great â Generals, their wives…All sitting at the same table! General Butlerâs wife was sitting next to me.â
Roy says if he never moved to Florida, he probably would never have met Gen. Butler.
Diane agrees, although she also credits Viera with making the introduction.
âCouncilman Viera is who really made the connection. It was at least a year or two in the making. Luis kept saying, âOh, Roy â Iâve got to connect you with the General. And itâs been a fantastic bond and relationship and like a love without them ever knowing each other before.â
As to why the native New Yorker made the move to the Sunshine State, Roy says, âI ended up moving to Florida because my wife, Muriel, was very sick, and we moved in with my daughter, Diane. It was the best move I ever made.â
Diane adds, âThey were being considerate of my husband (Donald) and myself, because we moved to Tampa in 2001 and we were having to travel back to New York every time to check on them, even though they were very independent. And then came the pandemic. They decided to move here at the end of 2020 for our sake.â
In our Aug. 19 New Tampa issue, Iâll tell you about Royâs 21-year career in corrections, including his book about being held hostage on Rikers Island. Thank you, Roy & Diane!
Editorâs note – Unfortunately, due to the timing of our issues, we were not able to get this recap of the extended Florida Legislative Session that finally ended on June 16 into the June 24 New Tampa issue, but I did sit down for a chat with District 67 State Representative and Florida House Minority Leader Fentrice Driskell (photo) a little more than a week after that lengthy session ended to get her impressions of the hits, misses and what the people of her District, which includes all of New Tampa, can expect between now and the start of the 2026 Legislative Session next January. â GN
NN: First, give me your general impressions of this yearâs session.
FD: To me, this felt like a session of missed opportunities, because the Speaker set a tone at the beginning of the session, that it was going to be a member-driven process and that we were going to focus on affordability issues, and basically there would be opportunities to collaborate on such issues. But in the end, this session was marked by, in-fighting amongst Republican leadership. The Speaker of the House, the Senate President and the Governor just could not seem to get on the same page, so what was supposed to be a 60-day session wound up being over a hundred days. And unfortunately, the budget was the biggest bargaining chip and the budget process was held up and it wasnât as transparent as it typically is, meaning that there wasnât really the opportunity for the public, I donât think, to advocate, as much as they specifically would have for their budget appropriations. It was really tough â for the public and for lawmakers â because we also were kind of pretty much in the dark. It just seemed like they couldnât even agree on even whether or not they were fighting, much less what they were fighting about. In spite of everything, though, I think, in the end, it was an O.K. budget. Definitely not an A+ budget, but it was an O.K. budget.
NN: Whatâs missing from the budget?
FD: What I would like to have seen that was missing were more funds for housing affordability. By my estimation, we actually reduced funds for affordable housing and this is not a time to do that. Especially here, when we know the Tampa Bay area is one of the fastest-growing regions in the country, and itâs becoming too expensive for locals to live here.
Youâll also notice that the Governor vetoed a number of water projects, just like he did last year. The problem with that, as we continue to endure stronger storms and flooding events, is that we need to have the right infrastructure to try to protect human life and property.
NN: What do you see as your caucusâ victories, despite the Republicansâ super-majority?
FD: In the end, they actually kept the funding for Advanced Placement courses and International Baccalaureate programs and certain certifications for students. And I think that was the right thing to do. And I give full credit, both to the Democratic caucus and to the public for really springing into action and embracing a lot of noise about that, so that they had to reverse course. I am really proud of our advocacy for students and families on the AP classes. We really hammered them on that, which was good.Â
NN: What about your own successes?
FD: I was really proud to secure some significant appropriations. For example, in a prior session, I helped sponsor legislation to establish what we believe are the first Sickle Cell Disease Centers of Excellence in the country.
So this year, we were able to secure $3.75 million for sickle cell disease projects â $1.25 million to establish a âcause of death initiativeâ aimed at addressing a long-standing gap in knowledge surrounding sickle cell disease mortality. There hasnât been enough study and focus to understand the exact causes of death for many in the sickle cell population. Weâre trying to understand more about what happens to sickle cell patients and try to strengthen advocacy efforts.
Then, thereâs another $2.5 million that is going to help that population with non-emergency transportation access because what we found is that transportation is a huge obstacle to that patient population from getting consistent preventive care. They miss a lot of appointments. When that happens, you know, things that were preventable become real complications, and they have worse outcomes.
This is going to allow for two transportation vans at each of the 15 sickle cell centers, including the one in my District on E. Fletcher Ave.
The other thing that we did get was a $350,000 appropriation for the Hillel Jewish Student Center of Tampa on the USF Tampa campus. Weâve heard stories of students feeling threatened on campus. Probably like a month or two ago, there was a gentleman found with weapons on campus, who was not a student, and he had a copy of I believe it was Mein Kampf.
Thereâs been an uptick of anti-Semitism, so weâre very proud to help our students feel safe. The appropriation is for school âhardeningâ and some technology, plus educational and cultural programming to try to counter disinformation and anti-Semitic rhetoric. The daughter of one of my colleagues in the legislature is half-Jewish, half-Black, and she used to wear a Star of David at school. But, there were some things happening at school and now, she doesnât even feel safe to wear to wear her star anymore. And, sheâs only in middle school.
There also was some drama this year where the Senateâs Democratic leader â Jason Pizzo â resigned his leadership position part-way through session and announced that heâs becoming an NPA. It was very dramatic. Iâve been in this position now for about three years, and Iâll tell you that leadership is hard. Thereâs no glory in it. It sounds like a very nice title, but itâs tough. And, for whatever reason, heâd had enough. So then, the Senate elected Lori Berman unanimously as its new leader and I will tell you that Sen. Berman and I work together really well. And, from that point on, Iâve found that weâve been very coordinated. The Senate and House Democrats are already working on a joint platform for next Legislative session, because we recognize that weâre stronger together.Â
And, we did have some platform bills that we worked together on this year, particularly related to housing affordability, expanding Medicaid, safe gun storage and universal background checks. These are things that are not easy to pass, but I do think itâs important to raise them so that we are a part of the conversation, and so that we keep trying to keep the conversation centered on affordability, because thatâs what our constituents want. The most calls that we get are people worried about housing affordability and dealing with property insurance. And, even though weâre the minority party, I think itâs important that we uplift the voices of our constituents and our neighbors.
NN: Which bills of yours didnât pass?
FD: I had a bill that was seeking to give clarity and direction to doctors with respect to the six-week abortion ban because we continue to hear reports of doctors being unsure of what they can do with respect to miscarriage management because, technically, that could be considered an abortion procedure sometimes. So, in consultation with physicians who practice in this area, we worked on a bill that would just give them some guidelines. Unfortunately, it didnât pass.
Recently in the news, there was a Republican Congresswoman here in Florida who suffered an ectopic pregnancy, and she was having difficulties getting health care because the doctors werenât sure what they could do. So, this is something that really has a need. Thatâs a dangerous thing to have an ectopic pregnancy and to have a doctor not know if he or she can provide care for that. I may not be the one who carries it, but weâll definitely bring it up again next Session.
There was also a bill that I carried on water quality improvements. It actually was a platform bill for our caucus. I read a report that Florida is one of the states with the highest amount of lead in our drinking water. So, I was pushing for a study, so that we could better understand the issue and start to remedy this. The bill also is basically asking for the state to implement the recommendations that were made by the Red Tide Task Force that looked at that issue. But, when something is a big hot topic in the moment, the legislature will take action, but then, maybe once the news coverage dies down, they just put things on the back burner. But, our beaches are critical to our economy, so maybe we should be more preventive with it. That was a real disappointment that we couldnât get that to go anywhere because environmental issues have been fairly bipartisan in recent years.
NN: So, you have one more legislative session in your current role before youâre term-limited out. Whatâs your next political move?
(L.-r.) Paul, Jamie, Joel, Kathy & Jake Miller. (Photo courtesy of the Miller family)
Dear University Of South Florida:
I am not a USF graduate nor am I related to Joel Miller, the former USF football player your former coach Jim Leavitt assaulted in your locker room in front of 30 of your players who you paid $2.75 million to go away and never come back because he assaulted one of your players.
I am, however, a father to two young men who are now in their 30s with families of their own, one of whom was once a youth football rival of Joelâs who later became good friends with him â close enough friends that Joelâs mother Kathy says she thinks of my son as Joelâs brother.
Why him? (Photo: GoUSFBulls.com)Â
But, Joel never made it to his 30s. He never got to have a family or even live to see if he could make his dream of playing in the NFL one day come true. And why?
Because Jim Leavitt decided to make an example of Joel at halftime of a game that USF was winning, by the way, by holding him by the throat, slamming him against the wall and â according to the reenactment Joel did for me of the events of that day in November 2009 â striking him with a closed fist three times, all in front of those 30 players.
But, Joel took this felony assault like a man. He finished out the game and the season without any attempt on his part to seek publicity, press charges or get money out of his school or even out of Jim Leavitt. All Joel wanted to do was play football. And the only thing he ever wanted from Jim Leavitt was an apology that never came.
It was another player who witnessed Coach Leavittâs assault on Joel who contacted the local sports radio station. Colby Erskin wasnât even necessarily calling the station to talk about Joel. Colby was calling to say that Jim Leavitt had gotten an assistant coach to throw all of his gear out of his locker and into a driving rain. He just inadvertently mentioned that what Leavitt did to him wasnât nearly as bad as what he did to Joel.
And that lit the fire that Joelâs mother Kathy, his father Paul and his sister Jamie know in their hearts ultimately led to the end of Joelâs too-short life. Their son and brother was ridiculed, cursed at, had beer thrown on him and a brick thrown at him that sliced open the back of his head. He was unable to escape (as I wrote in the February 28, 2015 edition of New Tampa Neighborhood News when I became the first member of the media Joel allowed to tell his story) being âthat kidâ â that whistle-blowing, attention-seeking kid who got Jim Leavitt fired.
But, whether you knew Joel and his family as well as I did or not, if youâve ever had a son of your own and you saw their life spiral out of control because of the actions of one pompous megalomaniac who assaulted your child, how would you feel about that worthless piece of garbage being inducted into the Hall of Fame of the school that paid to get rid of him?
I went to Leavittâs USF Hall of Fame bio on GoUSFBulls.com for his picture and I couldnât help but notice that there was no mention of USF being sued by this âstandup guyâ or having to pay him out millions in order to send him on his way.
The Letter
Kathy told me that she found Joelâs hand-written letter to âJimâ less than two years after Joel passed away in 2017, at the age of 29. Itâs a powerful two-page (below) appeal to Leavitt for nothing more than an apology â one Joel knew when he wrote it (8/12/2015) would never come. Pompous megalomaniacs donât generally apologize for their actions, especially when they get away with them scot-free. âJimâ went on to coach in the NFL and at four other college programs.Â
But, eight years after losing him, Joel Millerâs family is still broken. Their son and brother? Gone forever. All they really want â and genuinely deserve â is for your school to reconsider its decision to bestow this honor on a guy who never took you to a major bowl game â and committed felony assault and lied about it. Otherwise, please re-name it the USF âHall of Shameâ â and take the late, great Lee Roy Selmon out of it.
Pasco BCC Votes 4-1 To Bring In Veteran Management Company; Parking At The Wiregrass Ranch Sports Campus To Be AddressedÂ
Clearwater-based Sports Facilities Companies (SFC), which manages 90 sports facilities around the country, will take over the management of the Wiregrass Ranch Sports Campus (WRSC) on August 1. Thatâs the good news.
The better news is that SFC has six months to figure out the long-standing problem of not having enough parking at the facility. The not-as-good news, according to the only Pasco County commissioner who voted against entering into the agreement at the June 17 Pasco County Board of County Commissioners (BCC) meeting, is that improving the parking situation isnât in black-&-white on that agreement.
When the BCC voted 4-1 to approve SFC as the new management company to operate the Sports Campus, District 5 Commissioner Jack Mariano cast the only dissenting vote â not because he doesnât think SFC will do a good job of managing the facility, but because there is no official commitment regarding parking in place in the agreement, other than SFC has agreed to conduct a feasibility study, to determine the best way to add more parking at WRSC.
Mariano also said that it was obvious that the countyâs tourism department, which goes by the moniker âFloridaâs Sports Coast,â did not do a thorough or correct enough job of looking for a new operator when it put out its Request for Proposals (RFP) for companies to take over the management of the Sports Campus.
âYou say you did it right,â Comm. Mariano said to deputy director of tourism Consuelo Sanchez before the agreement was voted on by the BCC. âBut, we had only one bidder. If this company coming in says you need to do a feasibility study and you havenât already done that, you can tell me you think you did a good job, but thereâs a flaw there and they (SFC) exposed it.â
Sanchez said that the RFP went out to 7,800 sports facilities operators around the country, with only four responses and only one company, SFC, that submitted a bid.
Since June of 2023, the $56-million WRSC has been managed by Pascoâs Parks & Recreation Dept., after the BCC first voted to default (in Oct. 2022) and then bought out the contract of WRSCâs previous operator (RADDSports). According to RADDSports partner Anthony Homer, however, his company was on track to bring in 40,000 room nights when the agreement was bought out in 2023.
In 2024, the first full year the county managed the facility, Sanchez told the commissioners that the events at WRSC only brought in 21,000 room nights and the facility was on pace for about the same number of nights this year. SFC has committed to bringing in 30,000 room nights annually. The county, which is still paying off the four-year, $3-million buyout of RADDSportsâ agreement, also has incurred costs of about $20,000 per month for the Parks Dept. to run the WRSC.
Under the newly approved agreement with SFC, the county will pay SFC $750,000 â an initial financial commitment of $500,000, which Sanchez called âbridge funding to offset potential revenue shortfalls,â plus a âmanagement fee of $18,000 per month paid out of the Operating Account (an account to be managed by SFC which serves as the central fund to collect facility revenue and disburse expenses).â The 10-year agreement also calls for, âup to $250,000 for Facility Floor Resurfacing Reimbursement, since Sanchez said, âthe gym floors [at WRSC] havenât been resurfaced since the facility opened in 2020.âÂ
She added, âThis necessary upgrade must be completed regardless of facility management to ensure athlete safety, event eligibility and competitive standards.â
When Comm. Mariano raised the question of whether or not SFC was planning to provide additional parking for the Sports Campus, which already has a huge lack of proper available parking, Sanchez called Sullivan up to the microphone to confirm that his company is planning to conduct the study.
Sullivan noted, âWe are really excited about this opportunity. Weâve been working diligently with Consuelo, with Keith (Pasco Parks, Recreation & Natural Resources director Keith Wiley) and their teams to find out whatâs been working at the facility and what needs to be improved upon â and parking has been one of the challenges. It does us no good to not have convenient and adequate parking and we have full intention of solving the parking solution. We have proposals from three parking garage developers â two from here in the Tampa Bay region â and we know [parking] is going to be the number one thing we need to address.â
Wiley said that it appears that the only available space for more parking at the facility is an 18-acre lot located north of the 98,000-sq.- ft. AdventHealth Sports Arena, which already is north of the five outdoor fields.
âIt is a bit of a walk from that location to those fields,â Wiley admitted. Dist. 3 Commissioner & Board chair Kathryn Starkey asked if golf carts could possibly shuttle people back and forth from the parking area to and from the fields.
The resolution passed 4-1, with Marianoâs the only âNayâ because of the parking concerns.
Wiregrass Ranch developer JD Porter, who attended the June 17 meeting, but was not asked to speak, told the Neighborhood News after the meeting, âWe are very pleased with the approval by the Board of the outside operator. From our conversations and research, they [SFC] seem more than capable of running the facility, as the donation agreement outlines, as an upper echelon sports tourism facility. We look forward to [SFC] raising the bar of the tournaments and tax dollars brought into Pasco County.â
Following the vote, the Neighborhood News emailed Sullivan a number of questions about SFCâs plans for the Sports Campus, including:
1) Will SFC have management on-site at the facility?
2) How many weekend events are already on the books at WRSC for the rest of 2025?
3) Are there any weekends available this year for SFC to book events? If not, when will SFC (or its LLC created to run the Sports Campus, WRSC SFM, LLC) be able to start adding new weekend events?
4) Will you be retaining all of the existing employees at the Sports Campus or will you be deciding on a case-by-case basis which of those employees you will retain?
5) Will you be continuing the local programming thatâs currently in place or will SFC be replacing that programming with programs of its own?
6) When will the parking feasibility study actually begin?
7) Have you spoken with JD Porter and/ or Scott Sheridan of Locust Branch, LLC, since being awarded the contract?
8) Have you been in contact with the Peachtree Group about the Residence Inn that shares the Sports Campus site to address any concerns the hotel company may have?
Sullivanâs response to our email was: âWe do not take over operations until Aug 1. I would like to kindly decline any media interviews/discussions until we are formally engaged. I appreciate your understanding.âÂ