Nick Wolf passed away last year at the age of 11, but his memory will live on in many forms, including through a butterfly garden planted at Hunter’s Green Elementary.
Nick Wolf loved butterflies. His parents, Christina and Jim, raised them in the familyâs patio garden. He and his younger brother Scott learned almost everything about them, and loved to share little tidbits of information about butterflies whenever they had the chance.
Last year, as a brain tumor ravaged the fifth-graderâs body, but never his spirit, and the end was near, Christina told Nick that when his time came, to remember to send messages from heaven via butterflies.
Thanks to almost 70 former and current students, teachers, friends and family, some of those message-carrying butterflies may actually land in a perfectly manicured garden behind Hunterâs Green Elementary, where Nick attended school.
Teacher Cheryl Pahl led a contingent of earnest gardeners on April 9 in building and planting the Nick Wolf Memorial, a butterfly garden behind the school near its athletics track just off Cross Creek Blvd.
Christina planted the ceremonial first plant, a pentas, as Jim and Scott looked on.
âI know this is how he would want to be remembered,ââ she said.
Pahl has not only spent the past 15 years helping children to grow in her role as one of the gifted class teachers at HGE, she has done a pretty good job in schoolâs garden as well. Tomatoes, beans, and kale â lots of kale â have sprung forth from a dozen or so raised beds she and her students monitor (and steal a healthy treat or two from on occasion).
Pahl said she was honored to help plant some memories for those who knew Nick. Built with money left over from last yearâs fifth-grade fund raiser, the garden was tilled and ready to go when friends and family showed up at HGE on Saturday morning.
âHe just knew how to light up a room,ââ said Alexa Trafficante, a former math and science teacher at HGE who taught Nick in the fourth grade. âHe always came in with a joke to tell you. He even had a smile if it was the day after a chemo treatment. Thatâs why I think a butterfly garden is the best way to show our love for him.â
Nick was experiencing headaches and nausea in May of 2011 when Christina took him to the doctor. In just a week after that first visit, as Nick continued suffering from unbearable pain, he was diagnosed with a primitive neuroectodermal tumor (PNET) on the right side of his brain and headed into surgery, followed by months of radiation and chemotherapy. He spent 89 straight days in the hospital.
âAll he wanted to do was get back to school,ââ Christina recalled.
Although he suffered permanent hair loss after six rounds of chemotherapy and 31 radiation treatments, Nick appeared to be winning his battle. âYes, he got some stares, but that didnât bother him at all,â Christina said.
In September of 2014, an MRI showed no indication of cancer. However, a few months later, Christina said, the tumor had returned. Nick also was fighting hemolytic anemia, an abnormal breakdown of red blood cells in which they are destroyed and removed from the bloodstream, a condition likely caused by the amount of chemotherapy he received.
Maxed out on radiation treatments, there was sadly little left for Nick to do.
âNick was a fighter,ââ Christina said. âAfter he found out it came back, he cried for a bit but he said, âIâm not giving up.ââ
Nick continued to talk about the future. He wanted to buy his own laptop when he got older. He wanted to know what kind of car he was going to get. The fact that he continued to press on with such a devastating tumor amazed doctors.
Christina took him to school to exchange valentines at HGE in 2015. She says Nick was able to complete many of the items on his bucket list â he swam with dolphins, rode on a motorcycle, served as an honorary team captain for the USF baseball team and got to go on a Disney Cruise with his family.
He was still fighting and defying the odds, until on April 12 of last year, following a seven-hour seizure, he slipped into an unconscious state. He survived another month before finally passing away at age 11 on Motherâs Day.
âAside from that last month, even knowing what his condition was, he always had a smile on his face,ââ Christina says. âHe just had an amazing attitude.â
That is what many who helped plant the butterfly garden will remember about Nick, and why so many showed up to help.
To attract monarch butterflies, the gaggle of gardeners planted plenty of milkweed, which is the only thing monarch butterflies eat, Paul said.
The group also planted plumbago and cassia, a flowering tree that attracts caterpillars. âIf the caterpillars eat the tree, and it has yellow flowers, the caterpillars will be yellow,ââ Pahl said.
Parsley, dill and penstemon were also planted, all of which are feeding plants for caterpillars, as well as butterfly weed.
Pahl hopes to add a citrus tree, since butterflies like to lay eggs on citrus trees.
A brief ceremony followed the planting. A plaque with Nickâs name on it was placed in the garden, and butterflies were released by Christina into the sky. Most of them headed right for the fresh plants. Others landed on giggling children who had helped plant the garden.
Some, Christina likes to think, may have even been carrying messages.
(L.-r.) Sam Harris, Lisa Missana, Marla Zick, Shane Mitchell and Maurice Rolle got together at Stonewood Grill & Tavern a week after the quartet of rescuers pulled Marla out of her car as it sank in a retention pond just east of the Gateway Bridge in West Meadows.
Rarely does a day go by that four strangers â Sam Harris, Maurice Rolle, Lisa Missana and Shane Mitchell â donât think about the harrowing rescue, that one Thursday morning, around 7:45 a.m. on March 31, when they came together at the intersection of New Tampa Blvd. and Meadow Pine Dr. in West Meadows.
Each played a pivotal role. In just a few minutes time, they managed to cobble together the smarts, verve and guts to act selflessly and swiftly, to enter dark waters, to pull someone from a gray Ford Mustang that had sunk to the bottom of a retention pond. On May 4, they will be honored by the Hillsborough County Board of Commissioners.
âI donât know about your religious beliefs or what you believe in,ââ says Sam, âbut there was something happening that day.â
Four Strangers, One Goal: Rescue
Maurice was driving his 7-year-old daughter to school, over the Gateway Bridge just past Freedom High, when the gray Mustang heading in the same direction just in front of him swerved to the left and into a white brick retainer wall.
The driver of the car, Marla Zick, 26, had suffered a seizure and was no longer in control of her vehicle.
âI saw her lose control right at the top of the bridge,ââ Maurice says. âShe was swerving, and when she didnât swerve back to correct herself, I knew she was in trouble.â
The car rolled down the bridge, âscraping and grindingâ against the wall the whole way, Maurice said.
âI knew it was going wrong,ââ he added. âI was just screaming, âNo, no, no, no.ââ
Sam, a New Tampa Realtor who lives in Heritage Isles, was driving west on New Tampa Blvd., a road he says he had rarely driven on before. But, that morning, he had to pick up a cake at the Publix in the New Tampa Center for a wedding party at his wifeâs office at USAA, and decided to take the back way to the insurance office over the bridge.
There was nothing between his car and the one careening down the bridge towards him in the same lane.
He pulled over. The wall finally turned the Mustang loose, and it turned left. It just missed a cement light post, and a tree, before rolling between two bushes and into the retention pond at the corner of Meadow Pine Dr.
Maurice pulled over, told his daughter not to move, and tossed all of his belongings out of his pocket. Sam did the same.
After dropping his daughter off, Maurice had planned on heading into work at the 30/30 Barber Shop & Salon he owns on Busch Blvd. But, his plans changed.
âDammit, I gotta get wet, I gotta get freaking wet,ââ he said to himself.
After a few steps into the pond, Sam decided they needed something to pull the car out with. It was 7:55 a.m. He picked up his cell phone, called 911 and ran back to his vehicle for a rope.
Deeper Waters Than Expected
Shane was taking his 7-year-old son to school, and as he drove slowly down Meadow Pine Dr. they noticed the car coming through the bushes and rolling gently into the water, where it appeared to float and drift.
A 32-year-old carpenter, Shane pulled his Nissan over and hopped out. He saw Maurice near the water. While Sam was retrieving a rope from the trunk of his car, Shane had a wincher â a motor-driven or hand-powered drum around which rope or a chain is wrapped and used to move heavy loads â on the front of his.
âI just thought we would pull the car out,ââ Shane said. âI didnât think anyone would be going underwater.â
Maurice grabbed the hook at the end of the wincher chain and walked into the water. He was roughly 20 yards from the car, but the water was getting deeper with every step. After a few steps it was up to chest, and Maurice couldnât see the car well enough to have an idea where he would be attaching the hook.
All Hands On Deck
Lisa was just a few minutes behind Shane on Meadow Pine Dr., on her way to drop her 14-year-old son A.J. at Family of Christ School in Tampa Palms, when she saw the car in the pond.
At first, she grabbed her phone and started taking pictures. âOh gosh,ââ she says she told her son, âthat person better get out of that car. Then, I realized Shane and Maurice were yelling at somebody in the car.â
Maurice had returned to shore, and he, Sam and Shane were coming up with another plan. But, there wasnât time â the car began to sink.
âI could see her face, I was screaming to her that someone was coming,ââ Sam recalls. âAll of the sudden, the car went to the bottom of the pond.â
âNever in a million years did I think that pond would have drank that car like that,â Maurice says.
The nose of the Mustang went first, thrusting the back end into the air, where it then slowly disappeared from sight. âThree bubbles came up, and it was gone,ââ Lisa says.
âIt was total chaos.ââ Maurice says. âThe electricity at the point was crazy. Everybody was just in shock. Lisa was saying something, people were screaming, stuff just went by so quick…I looked over at Shane, and he was going into the water.â
Lisa was not far behind. She ran around the pond on the other side, slipped off her flip flops and in her jeans and a black Chicago Blackhawks shirt, jumped into the pond.
For a brief minute before she jumped in, all she could think about was all the photos her friends had sent her by text over the years of the two alligators that lived in the pond.
Once in the water, Lisa swam to the car and tried to get her bearings. She placed her feet on the roof of the car to determine where she was.
The rest, she says, is kind of a blur. She remembers focusing on the driverâs side of the car. Luckily, Marla had been driving with her window down. âI always drive with my window down,ââ she later told Lisa. âDrives my mom crazy.â
This time, it saved her life.
A Few Frantic But Freeing Moments
Shane and Lisa took a few turns unsuccessfully trying to get Marlaâs seat belt unclasped. Four, maybe five times each. Neither can remember exactly.
Had Shane not been getting over a cold, he says he may have been able to save Marla in one trip. He had dived for lobster and been spearfishing, free-diving 20 feet and staying under with no problem. On this day, however, maybe from the combination of his cold and adrenaline, he couldnât seem to get a deep enough breath.
The water was green and murky, Shane says. And the car was not visible. âShapes and shadows,ââ he says. âI was just feeling around for door handles and everything.â
Lisa came up from the water and screamed to the onlookers to find a knife or scissors, to cut the seat belt. She doesnât remember who brought her scissors, she just remembers sticking them in her back pocket.
But before she could make another trip below, Shane emerged from the water and told her he had freed Marla from the seat belt. It was time to go pull her out.
âLetâs do this,ââ Shane said.
Marla was frothing at the mouth, but was still alive. Tampa Police Department (TPD officers helped pull them to shore, and medics tended to Marla before taking her to Florida Hospital Tampa.
Together, they sank back into the water, but when they reached for Marla, she wasnât there. Unhindered by the seat belt, she had floated to the roof of the car and towards the passenger side. Once they figured out what had happened, âShane grabbed her by the waist, I grabbed something, and we pulled her out through the window,ââ Lisa says.
Shane and Lisa may not remember how many times they dove under, but they knew why â âI saw somebody dying,ââ Shane says.
In real time, the rescue lasted no more than two minutes, Sam says, maybe even only 90 seconds.
But, âIt felt like an eternity,ââ Shane says. âI remember when I stopped to catch my breath, I was just thinking, âOh my God, if I donât get her out she is going to die. I canât stop.â It felt like such a long time, and I dove so many times.â
Maurice was in shock, waiting for Shane and Lisa to emerge with a body. He was ready to jump back in if he was needed, but he worried that his failed attempt to hook the wincher to the car was Marlaâs best shot.
âThe deal was, I was like, âGod, please donât let this girl die,ââ Maurice says, âbecause I couldnât get to her.ââ
When they got her to the surface, Lisa and Shane turned Marla on her back. âShe looked dead,ââ he says. âShe was purple and blue and pale.â
Marla was frothing at the mouth, but was still alive. Tampa Police Department (TPD officers helped pull them to shore, and medics tended to Marla before taking her to Florida Hospital Tampa.
âWe have the best police department in the nation,ââ Sam says, a sentiment shared by the others, thanks to TPDâs quick response.
Lisa and Shane slumped to the ground.
âI remember my thighs hurt so bad,ââ Lisa says.
âAbsolutely spent and exhausted,ââ Shane says.
Lisa and Shane had the same thought as they looked out to the pond, to where the car had settled. Was there anybody else in there? Was a child strapped into a seat in the back? Had they done enough?
Lisa waited until the car was pulled out, to see with her own eyes. She was overwhelmed with relief when police told her the Mustang was empty.
Afterwards, Lisa would shower until there was no more hot water, drive up to school and give her son a big hug.
The Reunion…And Some Peace
A week later, the entire group â Marla, Shane, Lisa, Maurice and Sam â met for the first time since the incident, for dinner at Stonewood Grill & Tavern, located a mile or two from the scene of the accident.
It was a therapy session, of sorts. Lisa brought booklets for each person, with all the pictures she could find taken at the pond. Together, they pieced the story back together. The rush of adrenaline and the power of impulse and instinct had left many holes for all four of the rescuers.
âDinner definitely helped everybody,ââ Sam says.
Marla did not remember anything. She told them that one minute she was driving to get a cup of coffee at the Dunkinâ Donuts on Highwoods Preserve Pkwy., and the next minute, she woke up in a hospital.
For Maurice, dinner was closure. He had been troubled since that morning, and meeting Marla and talking with his fellow good samaritans helped clear his mind and his conscience.
âThinking that somebody could have possibly died and you didnât get to them that first go around,ââ he says. âThatâs tough.â
The attention he received afterwards had overwhelmed Shane, an otherwise private person. But, in the darkened, comfortable confines of Stonewood, he found some peace reliving the moment. It also helped him piece together the story.
âItâs a lot to come to terms with,ââ Maurice admits.
Lisa, who still gets recognized in public, and even thanked by strangers, learns something new every day about the event. She says she is haunted by what could have been. Re-telling her story, she cries at certain parts.
âThereâs a lot of âwhat-ifs,ââ she says. âWhat if we didnât get her out? What if she died? What if something went terribly wrong and my husband was planning a funeral and my kids didnât have a mother? Thereâs just so many things.â
Lisa spent many of her summers growing up in Chicago working as a lifeguard, but never imagined she would use those skills years later. âItâs just all surreal,ââ she says. âThis is something that is going to stay with me for a lifetime.â
Maurice, Shane and Lisa still drive by the pond daily, taking their kids to school, going to the grocery store, heading to and from work. In the past, Lisa might look over and see if any alligators were sunning themselves, but otherwise, no one paid it much attention.
Now itâs hard not to look and stare…and remember.
Something special happened that day.
âA spear fisherman, a former lifeguard, a barber and a real estate agent, all coming together, (each) with a role and a purpose,ââ Sam says.
Just when you thought the Wesley Chapel area couldnât handle any more growth, here we come with two shiny new maps showing as close to everything thatâs currently either in or rumored to be in development in and around zip codes 33543, 33544 and 33545.
On this page is a map of the area (mainly) between I-75 and Old Cypress Creek Rd., which shows the ongoing development of the Cypress Creek Town Center Development of Regional Impact (DRI), as well as a possible new development directly to the west of the Walgreens and Shell gas station off S.R. 54, just west of where it meets S.R. 56 and Old Cypress Creek Rd.
And, heck yeah, itâs a lot of exciting âstuffâ, especially if youâre looking for new places to eat (and who isnât?).
In addition to the eateries weâve previously told you about â including the recently opened Culverâs of Wesley Chapel and the nearly-completed Cheddarâs â the long-awaited Chick-fil-A has gone vertical between Culverâs and Cheddars. Further west of Culverâs, a Panda Express Fast Casual Chinese is getting ready to build just west of the corner of Grand Preserve Dr. and S.R. 56 (in front of the Tampa Premium Outlets mall, or TPO).
Three more restaurants are being added (and all are somewhere in the development process) east of the intersection of the new Grand Cypress Dr. and S.R. 56 â BJâs Brew-house, McDonaldâs and Longhorn Steakhouse. And, directly across S.R. 56 from Longhorn are a planned Pollo Tropical and a possible Fordâs Garage.
Further west on that north side of S.R. 56 (in the âRegency Shopping Center,â although the entire center still has to be called ârumoredâ here because no agreements were finalized at our press time) is a possible Mellow Mushroom Pizza Bakers.
Speaking of these ârumoredâ projects, Lisa McCaffrey â the managing director of retail services for Colliers International (which is managing much of the property located north of S.R. 56 between Wesley Chapel Blvd. and I-75) â told me a week after this map appeared on our website (on Apr. 7) and in our Wesley Chapel issue (which hit on Apr. 8) that there may be some inaccuracies in what weâre showing as ârumoredâ here, although she said she âcouldnât confirm or deny any of them.â
She added, however, that, âWe should be able to make some official announcements soon.â The information about the parcels marked as ârumoredâ were put together by our editorial department through our contacts with local officials and business people who were shown (some even had copies of) the site plans for these parcels.
As for non-restaurants in this area, Costco Wholesale is a go behind Culverâs and east of the outlet mall, although rumor has it that the 100,000-sq.-ft. Cabelaâs Worldâs Foremost Outfitters may no longer be coming to the area, but again, we were not able to confirm that rumor at our press time.
As I also mentioned above, we can not yet confirm whether or not the entire 240,000-sq.-ft. Regency Shopping Center â which also could be home to a 50,000-sq.-ft. Kohlâs department store and a (likely âgreenâ) 28,000-sq.-ft grocery store, as well as a couple of other possible free-standing or connected outparcels along S.R. 56. â is actually happening.
And, although even those with the broadest definitions of what is âinâ Wesley Chapel would call anything west of the Walgreens and Shell on the map âLutz,â there is another fairly large project located just west of those businesses, although (for now), the 32-acre âBrightwork Crossingâ project is rumored to include another 115,000 sq. ft. of commercial space, 100 hotel rooms and 350 multi-family units if and when it officially comes online. Â
FHCI Coming Soon!
And of course, weâll also keep you updated on the sprawling Florida Hospital Center Ice complex, located just east of I-75 on the north side of S.R. 56, which will be completed later this year, as well as the adjacent Holiday Inn Express Hotel.
Located just west of I-75 in this area are two more rumored projects â a multi-family development of 230 units and a Hyatt Place hotel, although we were unable to get confirmation and at least one source said they werenât sure âthat the Hyatt was still in play.â
Of course, weâll keep you posted in these pages and at NTNeighborhoodNews.com about any further developments on any of these projects.
Joey Richman (left) and Mike Miller have become friends. Miller agreed to donate a kidney to Richman, who suffers from Alport’s Syndrome.
Can a hashtag help find a kidney donor and save someoneâs life?
Count Wesley Chapel mom Dana Richman as a believer, after a Facebook and Twitter campaign she started in January helped find her son Joey, a 22-year-old pre-med student at the University of South Florida, a living kidney donor.
Tampaâs Mike Miller, a Mixed Martial Arts (MMA) fighter known by friends as âMuffin Man,â saw a #AKidneyForJoey post on Facebook, and has stepped forward.
The surgery and selfless sacrifice, which will effectively end Millerâs MMA career, is scheduled for Wednesday.
Battling Kidney Failure
Joey suffers from Alportâs Syndrome, a genetic condition that Dana says was passed down from her side of the family, which has suffered a number of deaths from the condition. Alportâs Syndrome causes hearing loss and renal failure. Joey first suffered hearing loss in the fourth grade, but doctors could do little to help, Dana says, until he went into renal failure, which has taken root in the past year.
Joey is fortunate. According to the National Kidney Foundation, more than 100,000 people are awaiting kidney transplants. More than 3,000 new patients are added to the kidney waiting list each month, and 13 people die each day while awaiting a life-saving kidney transplant.
Joey, who lost 30 pounds in the last year, currently administers dialysis to himself every 4-6 hours, for a total of 10 hours daily. Dana says there are 75 boxes of solution in her home. It has made her son weak and tired, barely able to climb a flight of stairs. He is taking his college classes online because getting around campus is too difficult.
Dana has watched Joey deteriorate over the past year, and canât work herself because she has been taking him to almost daily doctor appointments. She looks forward to April 20 and the months to follow. She says Joey will be isolated after surgery for 3-6 months, but hopes to be well enough to return to classes at USF in August.
âHe will feel amazing, probably back to how he felt in elementary school,ââ Dana says. âHeâll be able to do everything other people his age can do. I have goosebumps already just thinking about it.â
Response Overwhelms Mother
Dana said she was stunned by the outpouring of support for her sonâs plight. She says Miller is âthe most humble, respectful young man youâll ever meet.ââ She is also quick to thank the dozens of folks who called Tampa General Hospital (TGH) to volunteer for testing when the story broke.
She said TGH received up to 40 calls a day, and many are still volunteering to be Joeyâs back-up if the transplant fails for any reason. A host of others, she added, asked to be matched up with others needing transplants. âAmazing,ââ she says. âThat makes me happy.â
For Dana â a single mother of three boys including Wiregrass Ranch High graduate Jason, 19, and current WRH senior Jake, 17 â the amount of community support has been a blessing. The one-time military family has moved up and down the east coast, settling in Wesley Chapel three years ago from Pasadena, MD. Even then, she wasnât sure what the future held.
âIâll tell you what, Wesley Chapel is an amazing place,ââ Dana says. âTampa is too, but Wesley Chapel, we couldnât imagine any place better. It really feels like home, like we finally have a place to put our roots.â
To donate to the Richman family, visit GoFundMe.com/AKidneyForJoey. To help Mike Miller in his recovery, visit GoFundMe.com/6aunghtw. To become a kidney donor, contact Jenni Binns of Tampa General Hospital at 844-5669 or email her at jbinns@tgh.org.
Erin Heilman participated in the New Tampa Relay for Life to raise money for the American Cancer Society (ACS) for the first time in 2007. She says she continued to participate year after year, and in 2012, was shocked to receive a cancer diagnosis herself at age 37.
âNow Iâve seen both sides of this event, as both a participant and a survivor,â she says. This year, Heilman is heading up the event as its co-chair, along with her friend Buffy Atkinson. âWith all the mixed emotions the event brings out, it is truly a celebration,â says Heilman.
The New Tampa Relay for Life will be held from Friday, April 8, 6 p.m., until 6 a.m. on Saturday, April 9, around the track at Freedom High in Tampa Palms.
The annual event is always fun for families and event organizers invite everyone to attend. At 9 p.m., luminarias that have been decorated in honor of cancer survivors and in memory of those loved ones lost to cancer will be lit, which is always a beautiful tribute around the track. At 11 p.m., registered attendees under the age of 18 will need to have a wristband showing they have turned in paperwork and are allowed to remain, while registered team members will continue walking the track throughout the night and into the morning.
Heilman encourages people to support the Relay, which raises money for programs that help cancer patients.
âIâve actually used these programs myself,â she says, explaining one resource that was especially meaningful to her was the 24-hour support line she called when she received her diagnosis and was struggling with how to tell her then-seven-year-old son. Other programs include rides to and from doctor appointments for patients who need them, and funding for the Hope Lodge at the Moffitt Cancer Center, which provides a beautiful home for patients who have to travel long distances for treatments.
The New Tampa relay will be filled with booths that sport the eventâs fairy tale theme, âOnce Upon A Time,â including Sleeping Beauty, Peter Pan, Alice in Wonderland and many others. Heilman says her favorite theme was chosen by the team at Harold H. Clark Elementary, the movie âBrave,â to reflect that characteristic of cancer patients. There will be food, games, raffles, a giant inflatable, a scavenger hunt, three-legged race, frisbee, Zumba, a talent show and even a dance competition. All money raised that evening goes to the New Tampa Relay.
Last year, the event had 42 teams and raised more than $76,000. This year, there are 30 teams signed up to participate so far â and still time for new teams to join. Event organizers are hoping to raise $82,250.
If you are a cancer survivor, be sure to register at the event website and come out to participate. The event kicks off with a âsurvivor lap,â where all cancer survivors and their caregivers walk the first lap around the track. Each survivor receives a t-shirt and medal (new this year) and registered caregivers receive a pin. Dinner also is provided for all survivors and caregivers.
âWe want survivors there because we are there to celebrate them,â says Erin.
To learn more about the ACS New Tampa Relay, or to sign up a team, make a donation, or register as a survivor, visit RelayForLife.org/NewTampaFL.